Teens are more likely to report concerns about bullying to online platforms or tell another adult than talk to their parents
SAN MATEO, Calif.–(BUSINESS WIRE)–While the majority (93%) of parents say they discuss appropriate online behavior with their kids at least “occasionally,” teens disagree, according to a new Digital Civility Survey commissioned by Roblox, a global online entertainment platform bringing more than 100 million people together through play. The survey of more than 3,500 U.S. parents with kids ages 7-17 and 580 teens, uncovers the disconnect with 60% of teens claiming they “rarely” or “never” have conversations with their parents about appropriate online behavior, highlighting the opportunity to better prepare kids and teens for interactions in the online world.
While 91% of parents also believe their kids are likely to come to them for help if they experience issues like online bullying, teens are more likely to report such issues to the platform where they occurred (53%) or tell another adult (33%) than talk to their parents (26%). When asked to share advice with their younger peers, teens recommend reporting bad behavior, blocking strangers, or telling someone who can help.
“This data highlights the importance of initiating potentially uncomfortable conversations about appropriate online behavior and keeping open communication channels with your children,” said Laura Higgins, director of digital civility at Roblox. “The internet is a vast and daunting place, particularly for those of us who didn’t grow up in the digital world, but getting involved in our kids’ digital lives is our best chance to raise a generation of empowered digital citizens. Simply checking in every day to see what your kids are experiencing online will help build a trusting and open relationship, encouraging them to ask you for help when they need it most.”
Millennial parents are better at monitoring their children’s online activities
Survey results revealed generational differences when it comes to parental involvement in children’s digital lives: in comparison to Gen X and baby boomers, millennial parents spend more time monitoring their kids’ online behavior, with 68% saying they are “very aware” of their children’s online activities compared to less than half of Gen X and Baby Boomer parents (48% and 47%, respectively).
Millennial parents are also making better use of digital monitoring tools such as parental controls—over half (55%) of millennial parents use them for tracking kids’ online activities compared to 42% and 47% of Gen X and Boomers. Millennial parents monitor and track their child’s online gaming habits more often than other generations of parents, and are more likely to play video games with their kids as a way to keep tabs on their activities (37% compared to 29% of Gen X and 24% of Boomers).
Despite these differences, millennial, Gen X, and baby boomer parents who don’t monitor their children’s behavior do so for nearly the same reasons:
- 42% of parents just don’t feel the need to do so;
- 20% say they don’t know how; and
- 12% say they want their child to be independent.
“It can feel intimidating at times to keep up with the fast pace of which apps and devices our children use. This requires parents to educate themselves and ensure they understand how functions like chat work on a platform, or how to report bad actors and harmful content,” said Stephen Balkam, CEO of the Family Online Safety Institute. “We also encourage parents to sit down with their kids and familiarize themselves with the platforms together. This creates an opportunity to have a meaningful conversation about safety and protecting personal information.”
Online, teens often come across online bullying and inappropriate language, but they help each other out
Parents and teens are strongly concerned about online bullying, with the majority of parents (91%) and teens (77%) saying it’s at least somewhat of a problem for young people today. Twenty-two percent of parents have reported incidents involving their kids, and nearly one in five teens (19%) said they had dealt with online bullying in the past 12 months. Additional survey findings:
- Teens classify a variety of actions as bullying: for example, 51% of teens said making fun of someone in comments falls into this category for them when they are playing online, and 42% see calling someone a rude name or encouraging players to target others in a game as bullying too.
- While the majority of teens (65%) report often seeing others use inappropriate language while playing online, a lot fewer (27%) teens say they themselves use offensive or inappropriate language.
- Nearly all teens (96%) will likely help a friend they see being bullied online, and the majority of teens confirmed they get help from other players when they need it at least “sometimes,” with 41% saying they get peer help “often” or “always.”
“While some platforms strive to create a safe environment for younger users and are relentless in combating bad actors, teens may opt to use more open platforms—like unmoderated chat apps—in tandem with curated ones to bypass restrictions and push boundaries,” added Higgins. “Unfortunately, such freedom also allows ‘banter,’ bad language, and a lot of bravado, so it’s important for parents and caregivers to understand where their kids are hanging out online and how they are weaving social platforms together. While we can’t always control what our kids see on the internet, we can help shift control back to the kids by empowering them with the tactics and tools to handle bad actors or bad behavior.”
The significance of digital play
The majority of teens play online, enjoying the fun, relaxing after a stressful day, or seeking a challenge. For over a third (34%) it’s where their offline friends hang out. Of the 580 teens surveyed, 78% play online games at least once a month, and more than half of teens (55%) play several times a week or more often, underscoring just how significant digital play is in teens’ lives today.
For many it also brings a frequent boost of confidence— a quarter of teens (26%) say gaming is what they are best at and it makes them feel good about themselves. Moreover, 42% of teens who play online report frequently giving compliments to other players, and over a quarter (26%) report also receiving compliments when playing games online, though males are more likely than females to report this—33% vs. 16%.
The full results from the Roblox Digital Civility Survey can be found here. Roblox’s director of digital civility Laura Higgins shared her commentary on the Roblox blog leading to her presentation of the research at the 2019 International Bullying Prevention Conference this week.
This online poll was commissioned to SurveyMonkey as part of Roblox’s Digital Civility Initiative and conducted October 19-29, 2019, among 10,000 US adults, including 3,571 parents of children age 7-17 (922 of them are millennials), and 580 teens, 430 of whom play online games once a month or more. Respondents for this survey were selected from the more than 2 million people who take surveys on the SurveyMonkey platform each day. Data have been weighted initially for age, race, sex, education, and geography using the Census Bureau’s American Community Survey to reflect the demographic composition of the United States age 13 and over, then weighted for age, race, sex, education, employment status, and geography using Census Bureau’s Current Population Survey to reflect the demographic composition of the United States employed population.
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Irina Efremova/ Roblox Corporation